tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post7659479632184031017..comments2023-07-03T11:29:30.743+01:00Comments on swearingmother: Back to work, work, work.Swearing Motherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07277450057243928790noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-18218101365197805722007-10-27T15:42:00.000+01:002007-10-27T15:42:00.000+01:00Hello Eve, how nice of you to call in! So, you'r...Hello Eve, how nice of you to call in! So, you're having a go at the writing lark too? Kinda gets you hooked, doesn't it?Swearing Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07277450057243928790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-42571355884786590482007-10-27T13:19:00.000+01:002007-10-27T13:19:00.000+01:00Well like you am having a shot at the, .. Writing...Well like you am having a shot at the, .. Writing game.<BR/> Moaning about work reminds me of the years I moaned, tell you what, If I returned in another life, Which I have no wish to,<BR/> I Have decided. I will not get wed,,, I will not have children, (Joke) LOVE MINE XX... And will positively, Not Work. Unless, It is for a huge, Pay Packet. Min. £100,000, AND DO <BR/>BUGGER ALL FOR IT.Moschinohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01069367455810117070noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-85865633182808624702007-10-19T23:16:00.000+01:002007-10-19T23:16:00.000+01:00Hi Debra in France: How absolutely fantastic! Wh...Hi Debra in France: How absolutely fantastic! What a great thing to do. Will be visiting your blog ASAP to get all the details.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for visiting by the way.Swearing Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07277450057243928790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-26648743276966638152007-10-18T12:48:00.000+01:002007-10-18T12:48:00.000+01:00Hi swearing mother. We took the plunge 3 years ag...Hi swearing mother. We took the plunge 3 years ago and sold up and moved to France. We both work for ourselves, I am a hairdresser he is as a tiler and bathroom fitter. We don't need to keep up with the Jones's. We have worked out how much we need to live on, and generally life is great.:-)Debra in Francehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15043535993839224545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-41209860499353833202007-10-12T07:20:00.000+01:002007-10-12T07:20:00.000+01:00Hi Laurie, yes I think the same question has dawne...Hi Laurie, yes I think the same question has dawned on quite a few of us recently, yourself included, and now I'm thinking about it I realise what a difficult one it is to answer. The overwhelming opinion seems to be reduce, but don't give up entirely.<BR/><BR/>I am bracing myself to ask to do fewer hours, not sure how well this will go down with the management. But heck, I need more playtime.Swearing Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07277450057243928790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-66944408180287030222007-10-12T01:45:00.000+01:002007-10-12T01:45:00.000+01:00wow, look at the response here. you sure touched a...wow, look at the response here. you sure touched a nerve. it's something we're all grappling with, i think.<BR/><BR/>great post. obviously.lauriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18055442432266567561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-72851049507854774882007-10-11T21:55:00.000+01:002007-10-11T21:55:00.000+01:00Hi Ciara, thanks for visiting. Getting the balan...Hi Ciara, thanks for visiting. Getting the balance right is the hard bit, isn't it. When we're not working we can sometimes lack a sense of identity or purpose, when we are working we don't get enough time to "smell the roses". Complicated!<BR/><BR/>Hello to you Travelling, But Not In Love: Great to read you. Your blog is so well written and evocative. Could writing be an alternative career for you? If you ever get tired of dick measuring (you had to be there really, everyone)I reckon you could make your way as a writer!<BR/><BR/>Hi Merry, lovely to talk to you. It's odd that when I'm feeling a bit iffy about my blogging, you always come along and say the very thing that keeps me going. Are you psychic or what? Thanks for visiting!<BR/><BR/>Hiya Wakeup: I know what you mean. My husband sounds similar to yours, workaholic tendencies etc. Two weeks holiday a year sounds almost unbearable, what a work ethic. There's got to be a happy medium somewhere. Here's to finding it!<BR/><BR/>Best wishes everyone.Swearing Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07277450057243928790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-37707325397057162502007-10-11T19:39:00.000+01:002007-10-11T19:39:00.000+01:00It's even worse in the States, where most people o...It's even worse in the States, where most people only get two weeks' vacation a year. I view myself as a recovering workaholic. My husband however is still in the throes of his addiction to work. Sigh!wakeupandsmellthecoffeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04602735058278146250noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-54352768693293256242007-10-11T13:05:00.000+01:002007-10-11T13:05:00.000+01:00Gosh, that was interesting reading! I'm looking fo...Gosh, that was interesting reading! I'm looking for work right now and thinking many of the same thoughts... I need to be independent but "Headspace" yes, definitely! I may as well curl up now if I can't have that as well...<BR/><BR/>Great to hear you're into writing - you are so funny!! - hope you can reschedule to accommodate time for that. Can imagine that on your sense of humour alone, the hospital needs you as much as we readers do... <BR/><BR/>Good luck readjusting, oh and the furious haggard face - I thought it was just me....!!merry weatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15790847146645006254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-9311389344871051922007-10-11T11:12:00.000+01:002007-10-11T11:12:00.000+01:00Work to live or live to work?I think I work to avo...Work to live or live to work?<BR/><BR/>I think I work to avoid living. Sometimes things are a bit grim when it all stops moving...travelling, but not in lovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01063643541653145954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-79119104129080475872007-10-11T00:16:00.000+01:002007-10-11T00:16:00.000+01:00hi-came by way of rotten correspondent's blog. all...hi-came by way of rotten correspondent's blog. all i can say is WORK SUCKS lol i'm a stay-at-home-mom and have been for the last 3 yrs...i love it, but i get quite bored often. and as much as i say work sucks, i kind of wish i had some kind of job.<BR/><BR/>there's this song called The Monkey Vs. The Robot that my son <BR/>used to listen to...and right now the band escapes me but it goes like this: (remembered the band name, Piebald)<BR/><BR/>I know a girl who works in an office.<BR/>She says she has no time for herself.<BR/>She says other than that everything is fine, everything is fine.<BR/>I remind her everything's not quite fine.<BR/>Maybe it's OK or even worse.<BR/>Work should not control our every minute.<BR/>Eat to work. Sleep to work. Live to work. Work.<BR/><BR/><BR/>you can find the whole lyrics here or even hear the song http://www.lyricsondemand.com/p/piebaldlyrics/themonkeyversustherobotlyrics.html<BR/><BR/>p.s. i love your interests 'screaming at ppl, swearing' sounds like mine lolPamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12365631315923740004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-64377683950233420942007-10-10T18:16:00.000+01:002007-10-10T18:16:00.000+01:00Why hello, Big Chip Dale: What a fantastic pictur...Why hello, Big Chip Dale: What a fantastic picture I've conjured up of you - I can almost smell the pineapple oil from here! You are sure one lucky guy to be doing the thing you love, good on yer.<BR/><BR/>Mid-Lifer, thanks for visiting. I don't know why it's taken me so long to realise that we are a nation of wage slaves, but now I have I think things are gonna change, at least with my work ethic!Swearing Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07277450057243928790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-59561161256198837382007-10-10T16:15:00.000+01:002007-10-10T16:15:00.000+01:00I simply don't work - or do as little as possible!...I simply don't work - or do as little as possible! Actually (social science hat and serious face comes on) depends on what you call work.<BR/><BR/>Yes, we do work far too much in this country. Having spent many years in other countries where family is a priority and where they certainly work only if they have to to live, I feel desperately sad that we Brits are forced into ridiculous work hours mainly due to things like: an overly stringent work ethic, competitive job market, greedy capitalists, low wages and a high cost of living. <BR/><BR/>Somehow we have our priorities all wrong and Summat's gotta change.<BR/><BR/><BR/>....I'll get off me soapbox then....Mid-liferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18259190343085788311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-85447601251421767082007-10-10T02:16:00.000+01:002007-10-10T02:16:00.000+01:00Live to work, clearly. I'm lucky. I love my job. N...Live to work, clearly. I'm lucky. I love my job. Nothing makes me happier than throwing my thong into a crowd. But not everybody gets to do what they love, and fewer still get to do it naked and covered in pineapple oil. I say that it's important that you don't work to live, which is when you forget the important things. Like throwing thongs into crowds, or whatever it is you like to do.<BR/><BR/>I think that clears it up.Big Chip Dalehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05585365213244296058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-8627890092285042772007-10-07T16:34:00.000+01:002007-10-07T16:34:00.000+01:00Hi Cailleach, thanks for dropping by. I know what...Hi Cailleach, thanks for dropping by. I know what you mean, but luckily I have a job I love,it's just so very busy and takes up all of headspace, if you know what I mean.<BR/><BR/>Have been so interested in everyone's comments, I think what I'd really like to do is work fewer hours at the day job, and get into writing more. Even if nothing ever gets published, at least it would be giving my more creative side a bit of an airing. I need more thinking time!<BR/><BR/>Reading your profile, I think you're doing exactly the right thing.<BR/><BR/>Best wishes.Swearing Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07277450057243928790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-42698005423184601512007-10-07T10:59:00.000+01:002007-10-07T10:59:00.000+01:00It's always been a case of work to live in the pas...It's always been a case of work to live in the past - a friend and I were just talking about 'crap jobs that I've had' and that moment that dawns on you when you realise that no matter how hard you try you could end up stuck doing that crap job for a long time. <BR/><BR/>That said, having to be at home because of child care costs for six, gave me ample time to refocus, retrain and now I'm beginning to 'fall' into the work I never realised I could do... and it really doesn't feel like work... so if you're lucky enough to be able to work at what you love then it's live to work. But it's so rare :/Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06280161801824435219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-62296462965683999162007-10-07T07:05:00.000+01:002007-10-07T07:05:00.000+01:00Mimi: I think you've got the answer there, no poi...Mimi: I think you've got the answer there, no point in being too busy and tired to enjoy life, is there?<BR/><BR/>Will let you know how I get on.<BR/><BR/>Best wishes.Swearing Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07277450057243928790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-58511287414033601422007-10-07T01:32:00.000+01:002007-10-07T01:32:00.000+01:00Hi SM, work to live def, but do something you enjo...Hi SM, work to live def, but do something you enjoy. Do ask to cut down, I used to think you couldn't do that, until I did! What's the point of having that lovely sports car and no time/ energy to drive and show off? But keep on enough hours to pay for petrol! mimi not mikeFjordLinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07324785503053152578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-88701657498537747762007-10-06T20:02:00.000+01:002007-10-06T20:02:00.000+01:00Hi Flowerpot, thanks for visiting! I love my job ...Hi Flowerpot, thanks for visiting! I love my job but it's real hard work and I don't seem to have enough time or energy left over for doing much else. The whole world seems to be passing me by and I only noticed it because of the freedom of my holiday. Thinking of asking to cut down, but not stop. Maybe that's the answer.<BR/><BR/>Lovely to read you.Swearing Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07277450057243928790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-32185197663380009042007-10-06T13:59:00.000+01:002007-10-06T13:59:00.000+01:00PS I also think it's different if you work for you...PS I also think it's different if you work for yourself.Flowerpothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14102679179201725732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-69988041087137170202007-10-06T13:58:00.000+01:002007-10-06T13:58:00.000+01:00I agree with Laurie - I love my work but I only go...I agree with Laurie - I love my work but I only got into it full time 7 years ago. And yes, it's so much part of me I'm lost without it. But if you have a job you hate, or don't like, it's a very different story.Flowerpothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14102679179201725732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-68198259047012052542007-10-06T13:38:00.000+01:002007-10-06T13:38:00.000+01:00Tina/Thelma: Ah, bless you.Tina/Thelma: Ah, bless you.Swearing Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07277450057243928790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-6307279928022275382007-10-06T13:05:00.000+01:002007-10-06T13:05:00.000+01:00Louise, I was born ready. But we're going to need ...Louise, I was born ready. But we're going to need to stop off at a chemist so I can get some LemsipThe Woman who Canhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12369918534461488884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-69347170405537416212007-10-05T23:05:00.000+01:002007-10-05T23:05:00.000+01:00Hi Tina, you girls are going to get me into all so...Hi Tina, you girls are going to get me into all sorts of trouble at work! Good idea about the road trip though.<BR/><BR/>You up for it Thelma?Swearing Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07277450057243928790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4285758144007302365.post-84846566479996812172007-10-05T23:04:00.000+01:002007-10-05T23:04:00.000+01:00Belle, more than likely we've met then! I'm the h...Belle, more than likely we've met then! I'm the haggard one with a furious expression on my face at all times! And the House of Fraser bag dangling from my wrist, of course. <BR/><BR/>It's a small world ain't it?Swearing Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07277450057243928790noreply@blogger.com